homophobia

galing kay Ros

I am the boy who never finished high school, because I got called a fag everyday

I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

I am the man who fears that I will never be able to be myself, to be free of this secret because I won’t risk losing my family and friends.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didnt have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don’t believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.

I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends im a lesbian, because they constantly make fun of them.

I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp and left to die because two straight men wanted to “teach me a lesson”

—IF YOU BELIEVE THAT HOMOPHOBIA IS WRONG … REPOST THIS ON YOUR BLOG

Comments

  1. nice one red! natuwa ang pusa sa gesture mo. hehehe

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  2. naantig kasi damdamin ko eh. hehe. napingawan kasi ang aking 'live and let live' at 'live and love' na paniniwala. at siyempre support my gay friends. :)

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  3. ask ko lang po

    sabi ng maraming Pinoy

    including mga Pilipinong bakla

    sa Amerika lang daw matindi ang homophobia

    sa Pilipinas daw, TANGGAP na ang mga bakla at tomboy

    wala daw statistics dito ng mga baklang binubugbog at tinatanggal sa trabaho dahil homosexual ang mga bakla

    sabi ng mga friends kong babaing bakla, wala silang alam na kaso ng homophobia

    ano ba ang totoo

    sino ba ang nagsasabi ng totoo? may homophobia ba sa Pilipinas o wala?

    ano ang proof?

    nasaan ang statistics mula sa Philippine National Police at NBI?

    meron ba dito sa Multiply na makakapagkwento ng EXACTO na circumstances?

    ano ang mga trabaho na nagtanggal sa bakla?

    may kaibigan ba kayong Pinoy na bakla na sinaktan dahil sa homophobia?

    magkano ang nawawalang kabuhayan dahil sa homophobia?

    magsalita ka na, Bayan!

    hwag nang manahimik

    kung meron kang datos, i-share mo na

    para malaman natin ang totoo

    kung may homophobia nga sa Pilipinas

    o wala

    salamat po

    god bless!

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  4. tumataas na naman ang presyo ng bigas at langis...

    susunod ang pagtaas ng kuryente at tuition fee

    DADAMI na naman ang mga mawawalan ng trabaho

    DADAMI na naman ang mga lalaking didiskarte sa tradisyunal na paraan ng PAMAMAKLA

    ano ang PAMAMAKLA?

    walang makain? kailangan gumimik kasama ang mga barkada?

    E di MAMAMAKLA ang mga otoko

    lalapit sa Bakla para dumilihensya ng gimik money

    bobolahin si Bakla para maglabas ng datung

    kung hindi makuha si Bakla sa sweet na salita, daanin sa DAHAS

    DADAMI na naman ang mga kriminal na gagamitin na alibi ang paghirap ng buhay para PUMATAY NG BAKLA

    kailangan daw ng pambili ng gatas para sa beybi

    kailangan daw pambayad sa renta para hindi mapalayas sa apartment

    kailangan daw ng pangpaospital kay inay na malubha ang karamdaman

    okey naman yung mga ganyang alibi sa pulisya at korte

    so instead na MURDER.... nauuwi sa HOMICIDE na lang

    so may piyansa kay killer

    na tatakbo at magja-jump bail

    okey lang naman yan ?

    dahil BAKLA LANG NAMAN ang pinatay?

    pagkatapos nyang magpaaral ng dose-dosenang pamangkin?

    pagkatapos nyang magbigay ng tulong sa pamilya?

    kaawa-awang bakla

    biktima ng Philippines 2000

    biktima ng umuunlad na ekonomiya

    biktima ng pagtaas ng presyo ng bigas at langis

    pero never iisipin ng lipunan na biktima sya ng homophobia

    dahil ayon sa mga experto sa gobyerno WALA NAMAN DAW HOMOPHOBIA sa Republic of the Philippines

    ipagdasal natin ang mga biktimang inilibing na sa limot at pagsasawalang bahala....

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  5. Gay priest Fr. Richard Mickley and his organization Order of Saint Aelred was kicked out by his HOMOPHOBIC landlord in Quezon City, after the landlord's preachy preachy Christians convinced him to evict the gay priest. He needs to move the Order of Saint Aelred to a more expensive house... PLEASE HELP POOR VICTIMS OF HOMOPHOBIA by sending him as little as 100 pesos, as if that will do anything, but do it just the same. American Father Richard has donated his life pensions as a US serviceman to help Filipino gays and lesbians in the closet survive for over 15 years in Manila .... NOW IT IS THE TURN OF THE FILIPINOS to help him as he is already very old and sickly. The letter below (with contact addresses) is the sad proof of homophobia that only brave souls like Fr. Richard is willing to share to give proof to the fact that HOMOPHOBIA IS ALIVE AND WELL IN THE PHILIPPINES despite all efforts even by gays and lesbians themselves to hide the incidents that they themselves experience


    From Fr. Richard:

    You have no doubt heard that I have been evicted for "doing those same sex marriages" by our born-again preacher bigotted landowner. He knew before I moved in, and we discussed it. But his fellow bigots in his church convinced him to not let a sinner stay in his property. I told him Jesus even ate with sinners (which I am not asking him to do). He said, "It's one thing to commit a sin and repent; it's another thing to persist in living in sin."



    So that's another moving trauma and expense so soon. I have helped so many people in similar situations. I never dreamed it would happen to me -- in my advanced age.



    I have told people that I need a place big enough (with an extra large room) to house the George DeCarlo-Ryan Reyes LGBT Library of the Philippines. Friends have helped me find a rather expensive place which is large enough. George and Ryan will take custody of the library when they (move) here in the next few years.



    Some of my friends want to get 1000 LGBT to come here and stage a noise barrage for my friendly landowner. I told him that, and we negotiated that he may give me back my deposit in cash (to keep the peace) if he rents this place or another unit that is vacant.



    But moving is a very large expense. I am just hoping that a large number of our friends can spare P100 each, a few pesos here and there to add up to enough to cover the cost of moving, the truck and the movers. P100 from 10 people is already P1000. In the new place we can have more regular meetings (which have been forbidden here).



    Can you ask a few people to help out with P100 each, but no noise barrage, -- yet.



    In Friendship,



    Richard
    --
    "God is Friendship." (St. Aelred, 1110-1167)

    --
    Fr. Richard R. Mickley, O.S.Ae., Ph.D.
    Abbot
    The Order of St. Aelred
    St. Aelred Friendship Society
    13 Maginoo Street
    Barangay Pinyahan, Quezon City
    1100 Metro Manila, Philippines
    Mobile: 63 920 9034909
    E-mail: saintaelred@ gmail.com
    Website: http://www.geocities.com/staelredmo nasterymanila
    E-group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/saeffriends
    Fr. Richard's personal blog: http://richardrmickley.blogspot.com

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